The Best Version of Me

On my new journey of self discovery, it became clear that one of the reasons people decide to change their lifestyle is in order to enlighten the best possible versions of themselves.

Not only am I interested in the food side of things, I am increasingly becoming enticed into the idea of nourishing the soul by meditation/yoga.

I often hear (not always but often) the secret to reaching a ripe old age and still being active and well is to partake in regular low impact exercises such as walking/swimming, eat sensibly and having a positive outlook on life. I know it is easier said than done but these are really simple, easy steps to take in order to be a better you.



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I have been reading (again!) Sarah Wilson - I Quit Sugar and I really like her theory. I quote:

'Exercise less - It's a controversial idea, but hear me out. Humans didn't evolve to blitz and pump and boot camp themselves silly in a gym and there's no evolutionary purpose to running marathons. Outrunning a sabre-toothed tiger for 2-3 hours was never going to be an accomplishable feat, we evolved to feed our energy to our brains so we could outsmart said tiger.'

I really like this motto, or as Sarah calls it part of her wellness code, not because I am lazy but because it totally makes sense. I mean, what do marathons and Ironman's prove really? That you can push your body to its absolute limit until it can take no more?

Anyway, I am an absolute beginner of meditation (and probably not even doing it right!) but I take 5 minutes (that's what I'm starting with) every morning between Luke leaving for work and Ben waking up and lie in bed. I start from my head and try to relax each muscle working my way down my body until I feel my body loosen up. I then imagine a space, a piece of heaven in my mind such as walking on a warm beach and try to experience all the sensations. I try to feel the warm sand beneath my toes and the sun beating down. And then I imagine floating in the warm sea and drifting my hands through the water.
Just 5 minutes of this before coming back to reality can make you feel so much better starting off your day.

You don't have to do this in the morning, you can do it whenever you feel is best for you. I read that some people take 5-10 minutes in their lunch break or prefer doing it in the evening. Whichever you choose, it is best to repeat at the same time every day. Also you can choose to lie down (I am because I am 37 weeks pregnant currently and feel more comfortable doing so) or you can sit in the lotus position (legs crossed) or kneel. This is really all I know so far but it shows that anyone can do this.

You probably want more reasons as to why you would take this into your daily routine so here are a few:

• Stress reduction - not only does meditation give you some down time for however long you decide, it also has a direct effect on reducing cortisol, the body's stress related hormone. By meditating in the morning, you can decide what you want from your day before it has fully began.
• Happiness - Meditation can increase serotonin levels (mood enhancing hormone) and allows you to have a happier outlook on life.
• Improved sleep - One of the best natural remedies for insomnia, meditation can clear the busy mind that keeps you awake at night allowing you to get that full nights sleep.
• Boost Energy - Because meditation gives you time away from all the stimulation in your day it allows you to have more control, feel less rushed and reenergised.
• Increase immunity - if you feel a cold coming on or everyone at work has a bug going round, by taking time out of your day to build up your defence and research shows it boosts antibodies to fight off nasty viruses and bacteria.

This is what I have learnt so far and I think there are numerous other benefits from meditation but I haven't been doing this long at all. Just think, something so simple is so effective. Why are we not all doing this?!



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I personally don't have a specific reason to meditate but the overall idea is I want to boost the best version of me so why not give it a go for yourself?

Linds xx

'Dum Dum de Dum...All Dressed in White...'

Arghh! Look who got engaged!

On Sunday 5th October, Luke said we needed to pop and see his granddad (who happens to live just around the corner from the church where we first met at my friends wedding - however this did not register to me at all). Instead of continuing on to his granddads house, he turned into the long driveway of the church and I did my usual, nagging him as to why he had gone off track, until he pulled over. He told me to get out (I still had no clue as to what was happening) and when I turned round he was down on one knee! I couldn't believe it!

Only that week had I jokingly warned him that if he proposed I might not cry as everyone calls me the ice dragon, but there I was sobbing my heart out. Of course I said yes amidst blubbering and he bought out a bottle of champagne.

What I loved about how he did it was that it was so understated and yet so meaningful (once I worked out that's where we first met...) There was no-one around, there was no fancy restaurant, no over the top arrangement in place and most importantly I had NO idea it was coming. I have a sneaky way of discovering hidden plans/surprises so the boy did good.

We have already booked the wedding already for next year, August 30th and I can't flippin' wait! Just need to get this baby out (3 weeks to go) and lose some weight ready to try on some dresses!

Anyway, think I'll float off in my romantic dreaming bubble now...

Linds xx

New Blog Direction

I have never really known my forte in life but what has always been apparent is my love for food and cooking. I wake up and I am so excited for breakfast, I plan lunches and dinners well in advance throughout the day as I like to look forward to what we will be eating and flicking through a cookery book with a cuppa is my idea of a little piece of heaven.

I had booked myself onto a professional course at Ashburton Cookery School in Devon but had to drop out as I found out I was pregnant with Benjamin. Although I was delighted to be pregnant, a little piece of me was disappointed that I couldn't continue with the course however many times people told me 'you will be able to do it again one day'. One day meaning years.

Although I do love wholesome, hearty dinners and tasty home made treats, for the past year or so I have developed a passion for holistic nutrition and well being and I really feel that this is the direction I am heading in lifestyle/career wise. My Instagram feed consists of Dale Pinnock, Deliciously Ella, Madeleine Shaw, Mind Body Bowl, Green Kitchen Stories and more. I am becoming one of those annoying people that only post pictures of my latest soup or breakfast bowl and I am teaching myself that the right food can heal you from the inside. I am making a conscious effort to shop locally, to try new, in season delights and to generally feed my body and soul with goodness.

Porridge made with almond milk, blueberries and cinnamon.

Local Farmers Market goodies.

Deliciously Ella's Lentil and Turmeric Soup.

Been desperate to get my hands on this stuff!

Tomatoes ready to be roasted for a soup.

Excuse the low quality pictures - need to invest in a proper camera!

I'm hoping to take this blog on a new journey, where I still document my lifestyle and musings however focus more on my new total well being. I hope you will enjoy.

Linds xx

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Contemplating

Recently, I've been asked a few times what I think I'll do jobwise once my children go to school. It's been a bit of a shock because I've been putting those thoughts to the back of my mind for so long as the thought scares me.

Not because I don't want to go back to work but because I have no idea what I'll be doing. And it is the realisation that I'll unlikely be important in a job again, which if I want to commit to my children and family is true.

I'm going to have to think about something that will fit round my lifestyle but will that fulfil my dreams and ambitions? I have a constant conflict in my mind. What are us mums supposed to do?

My mum was a stay at home mum ever since my sister was born when I was 7. Luke asked me what I remember most about her being at home. I answered that I loved whenever I was poorly she could pick me up from school immediately, take me home and care for me. I loved how a home cooked meal was always ready whenever I got in or that the house was always clean and tidy and my clothes were always ready when I needed them. These were little things that I know my best friend who had a single working mum never had.

I had always panicked that Ben would grow up to think I never did anything if I were to stay at home or work part time but Luke reassured me that this wouldn't be the case.

I know some women have no choice to go back to work and I know that we could have had more money if I worked full time instead of part time. I just feel that its been our choice to have children (maybe not choice the first time!!!) but it happened and I want to do everything possible to ensure Ben and bump have a secure, loving upbringing even if it means sacrificing extra money.

I still believe traditional ways are the best but unfortunately the government doesn't think so as they make it virtually impossible for mums to stay at home with their children.

We'll just have to see where we are at the time the decision needs to be made. In a few years we might be more financially stable, cars paid off and savings built up. Who knows where the future will take us.

Linds x

Happy Anniversary

Yes, that is his real hair.

Happy 4 Year Anniversary to my one and only.
4 years together, 3 years living together and almost 2 children! 
You just know when they're the one.

Linds x

30 Weeks

I do like a good pair of baps!

The above picture was taken of me last week at work whilst I put the bread delivery out. Then it occurred to me that this week see's me entering the 30 week mark of pregnancy and that I only have 4 weeks left of work. Not that I am unhappy about finishing work but it's the realisation that very soon there is going to be another baby here (exciting). And that means I will have been through labour one more time and I can't bear to think about it! (scary)

I didn't have a great first labour. It was very long, very painful and my memory of it is a total blur. I seem to be the only one out of my 'mum' friends that had a difficult time, everyone else seems to ask what I was moaning about. And that makes me feel like I either have a low pain threshold or was just being a huge wimp!

But anyway, I'll go into it again with an open mind. I definitely won't be writing a birth plan and I didn't with the first. Nothing goes to plan so to speak. I'll have any pain relief except pethidine (which doesn't sound open minded I know but I've heard nothing but bad experiences of it) and I'm going to try and remain a bit calmer this time rather than screaming and shouting at the top of my lungs with each contraction. Easier said than done, right?!

I know most people finish work at 36 weeks but with my job, even though I'm only part time, I'm constantly on my feet running around like a blue arsed fly and each shift just about finishes me off. It'll also give me a precious few weeks to spend with Benjamin before the new arrival .

Is anyone else expecting their second? How do you feel about it all?

Linds x

The Scarecrows' Wedding by Julia Donaldson Review

As many of us mum's do, I love Julia Donaldson's books and I Ben couldn't wait for the latest instalment. Sometimes the bed time routine can become a bit tedious with some of the kids books out their but at least her books try to give the parents a giggle too!

The book follows Betty and Harry the scarecrows on their quest to plan the best wedding yet. But what happens when Harry goes for a walk to find some flowers and doesn't return? And the Farmer comes to the field and puts up a new, swanky scarecrow called Reginald Rake...

The rhyming is brilliant and we read this about 5 times on the first day we received it. It is still the only book Ben wants to read at bedtime so for that reason I'd give it 5 stars.

There has been a fair bit of criticism due to the reference of Reginald Rake lighting up a cigar. Although children do see people smoking most days walking in the street or with family, its not something I approve of or want my child exposed to whilst they are innocent and just want to enjoy a book. I'm aware that the reader is told it is a bad thing to do when he lights up the cigar and then drops it, setting him on fire but I just think surely Julia could have written something else into the rhyme to have the same effect.

This still won't stop us reading the book as the rest is brilliant and I will continue to purchase these books.

Linds x

The Island - Victoria Hislop Review

An intricate, gripping tale of leprosy, love and lies.

There is so much detail entwined within this book but it was easy to keep up with the amount of characters and branches of story due to how well it has been written.
Hislop has clearly researched her subject well and offers a brilliant insight into leprosy and Spinalonga by building an unique plot around it.

The main story revolves around Alexis, a young women setting off on a journey to Greece to discover the hidden secrets of her family's past. She travels to Crete where she meets, Fotina, her mothers, aunties best friend who is the only one alive to tell the tale. We hear of the tragedies that leprosy caused, what life was like behind the gates of Spinalonga and the strength of their country during the war.

The only reason I didn't give the book 5 stars was because I felt that although the ending was a twist I didn't see coming, it was too rushed compared the start and middle of the book and I was slightly disappointed. I was enjoying it so much and it suddenly came to a halt.

Overall it's a novel that will stay with me for a long time.

Courgette-ed out - 2 genius ways to use a glut of courgettes!

It's usually this time that people who grow their own veg have a huge glut of courgettes. We haven't grown any but my mother-in-laws neighbour has had the biggest glut I've ever heard of! Basically she has had enough to feed my mother-in-law and her 5 children! I thought she would be sending me one or two but when Luke walked through the door with a bag full of about 16 courgettes my eyes nearly popped out of my head! They weren't diddy either!

Of course I didn't want them to go to waste so what was I to do with them all?

One morning, whilst he was off work, Luke helped me make 15 portions of courgette and pea soup. A recipe I use regularly from Sally Bee and the whole family enjoys. I froze most of them but gave a couple of portions to family. Aside from a couple of onions, one large bag of frozen peas and a bit of stock this was the cheapest 15 portions of soup ever.

Once I had used that up, the mother-in-law sent another bag of mini courgettes, some new potatoes and some green beans. To use the green beans and new potatoes were easy to use but I had to use my imagination for the courgettes. So I made a roasted vegetable pasta dish that we ate for lunch one day and then me and Luke took to work the next. I used up some peppers that were going past their best, threw in some pesto, cheddar and black pepper. Et voila!

It is really useful to buy and use what is in season as it is often going to be cheaper when you buy in the supermarkets.

What have you had a home grown glut of this year?

Linds xx

Our week in review!

Last week Luke was off from work and we had decided as soon as I got pregnant that we weren't going to go on holiday as we wanted to save and buy the news bits we needed.

So we spent the week doing things we don't usually get time to do. As a family we don't get one whole day together in the week at all. Luke works all week and then Saturday is either cricket or football and Sunday I'm at work. We try to squeeze swimming in Saturday mornings but days out together are a rarity.

So Monday we wrapped up and took a picnic to Attenborough Nature Reserve. I say it's like a hidden gem as to get there you drive through a big shopping centre thinking you're not going to find it and then bam! It's like piece of heaven, hidden away from the hustle and bustle.
Then we decided to visit Luke's granddad as we haven't been for a while, which was nice. Then in the evening my mum babysat Ben and me and Luke went to watch Inbetweeners at the cinema which was fab! However I was gobsmacked at the prices, which isn't a surprise! £17.41 for two tickets and £11.50 for 2 scoops of B&J ice cream and a regular combo deal of popcorn and drink. No wonder the cinema trade is dying! We could go for a meal at that price.

At Attenborough Nature Reserve

Tuesday I was at work so Luke packed up another picnic and took Ben to watch the Derbyshire cricket. I can't believe Ben loves it already and keeps asking for his own cricket bat. Definitely must be a boy thing!

Wednesday we had planned to go to Skegness for the day but the weather was a little gloomy and we decided against it. We then headed off to Rushcliffe Country Park for a walk round and Ben played on the recently renovated play area which even I wanted to go on. Suddenly it started pouring it down and everyone started running back to their cars so we did too as it turned really cold! Ben didn't understand the emergency and decided to have a paddy. Pfft. In the evening I made some chocolate brownies as I couldn't bear to watch an episode of Great British Bake Off without cake!

Thursday I had the midwife and then I went with my sister to get her A Level results. To celebrate we all went to the Harvester for lunch which I can honestly say is totally underrated! Not been for ages and forgot how good it was. In the afternoon, we came home, got in comfy clothes and spent the rest of the day watching films.

Friday I booked off work. As Ben was at nursery it meant me and Luke could spend the day together. We spent the morning doing the food shopping and then went to Morrison's for breakfast. We are like little old people already as while we waited for our food we spent the time doing crosswords and word searches! Then we nipped to a few charity shops scouring things for the house but only came away with a few books. Around 4pm we went to the local pub park and I had a small white wine and Luke had a beer and we shared some cheesy nachos. Then suddenly, my mum, dad and auntie, uncle and cousin (who are currently over from South Africa) joined us and after I went to collect Ben from nursery around 5ish, we spent the whole evening there.

We love simple things and believe you don't have to spend a fortune to have a lot of fun! I hope we are building the memories that Ben will start to remember and look back on in his childhood.

Linds xx

Working 16 hours a week and being a mum

I don't have a lot of time for much these days as any mum will know the majority of my day consists of running round after Ben, being pregnant, working part time and keeping on top of the house.

People always wonder how I can like being only a part time worker or they wonder what activities I fill my day with. Of course, you often get 'bet you do nothing all day!' But the truth is every day I am always busy and I can't wait to finish work again for maternity leave! I'm someone who would be quite happy to not work again, whereas that's not for everyone. It's not financially feasible for us either.

I have so much to do every day and although every job sounds little they all mount up. Our house is tiny but I can easily sweep the floor 3 times a day and you wouldn't know! I always make most of our meals from scratch too which takes a fair amount of time of preparation and cooking. I make Luke a salad from scratch too (see below). I also try to do one of my bigger jobs every day e.g. clean bathroom/ironing/hoover etc. This is in between any miscellaneous jobs I have to such as popping to the shop for extra supplies, going to the post office or making important phone calls (of which 9 out of 10 times result in a toddler melt down and a very hot and flustered me!)

 



I don't spend my days gallivanting out having coffees all the time or visiting expensive children's attractions. The times that I do arrange to see friends with children are often a walk round a nature reserve with a picnic or flask of coffee and as I have found recently, they aren't overly enjoyable for us mums to chit chat. We now have to watch out for children running off and we barely manage to string a sentence together without being interrupted! It's all part and parcel but we love it anyway.

 

So if we're struggling financially why wouldn't I go back to work full time? Even though Ben was a nice little surprise and this next little bean was planned, I don't believe in having children to let other people look after them for you. I am quite traditional in the sense that I want to be there for my children and I want to watch them growing up. I don't want to have to palm them off on someone when they are ill. And we can just about keep afloat with me working part time for the time being and Luke is accepting of this. Goodness knows what would happen if his dinner wasn't ready for him when he got home from work, he'd be so grumpy!

 

I feel we have a nice balance and I would say we have a rich life in simple ways. We eat well and we have lots of walks out and about. We do see family and friends often but like I say its at each others house or somewhere cheap. Although its not our own home its a lovely, cosy home with everything we need. Ben has all the toys and books he could wish for and we are always busy doing some colouring or painting or building blocks or in the garden. We have lots to look forward to in life; a new arrival in November, Benjamin turning 3, Christmas and hopefully moving house next year.

 

They are only little for once so if you can be around for those early years you will never regret it.

 

Linds xx

Our Baby Budget

I can hear what you're saying already. 'Didn't you keep everything from before?' Well the answer is yes and no so I thought I'd show you what we've had to buy again and what we've spent because as you know we're on a massive budget.

Pram

The main thing I needed was a new pram/travel system. The one I had before was old and second hand when I bought it then and it was extremely cumbersome. I always said the one thing I want next time is a better pram.

Obviously I couldn't afford a brand new pram and too be quite honest you must be mad to pay full price for some of the prams available! £500 upwards they go for! And once Ben was sitting upright I ditched the pram and bought a lightweight stroller. There are so many good quality, modern second hand prams available on eBay and Gumtree so I really recommend having a look around.

Anyway, I stumbled across an eBay advertisement for the below travel system. (Picture is from eBay and I can't enlarge it without it becoming blurry as I am a bit of a technophobe) it was the Concord Neo Pushchair and Ion Car Seat. What I liked about the set was that it came with the Neo Slider Surfboard which would be perfect for Benjamin and I was expecting to buy anyway.

The seller was asking for £100 for the lot so I popped a bid in and thought it would go up out of our price range. However we ended up winning and I was so chuffed! We drove up to pick it up and it was used by a lovely woman who had really looked after it. You know when you get a good feeling about a purchase?!

The cheapest I've found the car seat online is £65, the pram is £480 and the surfer is £80 saving us £525

 

 

Nursery Set

 

I know it's not creative of me but with lack of time and energy I thought I would invest in a nice nursery bedding/decor set. I never really bothered with Ben and his room looked a bit bland for a while so I thought I'd see what was available.

 

As much as I love all of the Mamas & Papas range, it's not feesable or sensible to pay so much for something that won't be used or appreciated by the new addition.

 

I really liked the range Olive and Henri by Babies R Us and decided to look on eBay if anyone was selling parts of the set. I think it was meant to be as I stumbled upon a grandma who was selling the entire range; uplighter, cot mattress cover, blanket, cot bed quilt, cot bumper, 3 canvas pictures, tab top curtains and tie backs for £50 and she was about a 3 mile drive away. Saving me £92 in total. Also, because it was a grandma the items were in perfect condition as the grandchild only stayed over a couple of times.

 

 

Babymel Satchel

 

This is a bit of a cheat as my mum secretly bought and had this delivered to my home as she knew it was the one I wanted. Saving me £42.

 

 

Here is what else I have been doing:

• I spent half a day scrubbing the high chair as I didn't realise how much food and stains there were - it was filthy!
• Luke got down from the attic all Ben's old clothes and I have washed and ironed all Newborn, 0-3 and 3-6 month babygrows.
• I have been adding a pack of Newborn, Size 1 and 2 nappies to the shopping every so often.
• I bought a pot of lavender essence as after I gave birth last time I had milk and lavender baths to ease the soreness.
• I bought an Avent Bottle starter kit in a baby event at the supermarket.
• I have been making my own few decorations and odd bits to create new items for baby.
• I dug out the steriliser and Angel Care Monitor and checked both were working still.

What I still need to buy:

• Baby change mat as last one ripped. Seen one in upcoming Asda Baby Event for £4
• Breast pads, maternity pads
• Clothes for hospital
• Wipes and more nappies
• ...can't think of anything else.

I just think it's about planning ahead and buying the odd thing here and there rather than all at once and leaving a big hole in your bank balance. The way I'm doing it is by adding an item into my weekly shopping, I hardly notice it. Or saving money by keeping my eye out for supermarket baby events. Buying second hand and getting creative.

 

What have you done to save money for a new arrival?

 

Linds xx

 



Carole Matthews - A Place to Call Home Review

 

Some of you will be shocked to hear that this is the first Carole Matthews book I have read. I tend to avoid chick lit but in an attempt to persuade me, my mother recommended it to me on the basis it 'had a bit more meat to it' than a regular chick lit book.

Ayesha and her daughter Sabina strike lucky by landing in a safe house after a desperate escape from her abusive husband Suresh. Sabina is now a mute after witnessing horrible attacks from her violent father onto her mother and is extremely timid due to what she has endured.

It is no ordinary safe house in that it is owned by world renowned pop star Hayden Daniels, who after his own personal tragedy confides himself to his room and barely steps outside. The house is home to two other unlikely residents; Crystal a blonde, vibrant young woman who had a brief fling with Hayden and somehow never left the home and Joy, a 70 odd year old widower who is a closed book, miserable and hides away in the only love she has - the homes garden. All three of them are a world apart but are closely bound by their share of tragedy and loss.

When Ayesha and Sabina arrive, it disturbs the routine of the home and its inhabitants however, over time, they become accustomed to Ayesha's home cooking and general kindness towards the others. Sabina, although mute, lifts the spirits of the house as she practices piano and slowly embraces her new life. We see wounds unfold and pain released in the form of new friendships and possibly romance.

Lurking back at home, Suresh the violent husband, deals in petty crime but has plans for bigger conquests such as jewellery store robbery. But his utmost priority is planning to do whatever it takes to find his wife and daughter and make them pay for leaving him and humiliating him.

After rating it a measly two star on Good Reads, I wasn't amongst the majority. I'm not used to Matthews work so cannot compare it to other books she has written.

I personally couldn't warm to the main character Ayesha. After being the victim of domestic abuse I am aware that Ayesha may be nervous, feeble and weak in new situations however even towards the end of the book her lack of confidence and continuous, almost sickly appreciation of anything anyone does starts to ware.

Trying not to sound narrow minded, but the plot was extremely predictable and this is precisely why I avoid chick lit. I had a good guess of who would fall in love, what the climax would be and that they'd all live happily ever after. And I was right!

I know books can make anything possible but the situation of the safe house being an ex famous pop stars home and the random collision of people living their was extremely surreal. I just couldn't click with the idea and thought it was too far fetched.

Nevertheless, I didn't give up on the book like I have done with some others and I wanted to complete it so that's why I gave it two stars. Something in me wanted to keep going and see these unlikely characters become happy once more.

I'm pleased Carole Matthews has a huge following and I'm glad I gave this novel a go however I just don't think her books are for me.

Boring Baby Blanket Revival

I am planning everything I need for baby and it's one of those times where I don't really need to buy an awful lot but I secretly want a few new things!
I have washed and ironed all of Benjamin's old clothes however have bought the odd item off eBay like a gorgeous boys Cath Kidston 0-3 baby grow which was a bargain.
My next task was sorting through what baby blankets we have (and resisting to buy an awfully expensive but incredibly gorgeous Mamas and Papas knitted blanket!) and although we have enough, I came across a very boring, very plain cream blanket. However it was too soft to recycle so I wondered what I could do to inject a bit of newness into it.

I used one of my dad's old shirts, cut out round a star template and used adhesive webbing to iron each one onto the blanket. The fluffiness around each star was due to a bit extra webbing being ironed on but after a wash and iron it looks brilliant! So quick and so easy. And now I have a new blanket!

Linds x

Latest Books

For some reason when Summer appears I slightly lose interest in reading. That's bad isn't it! But because the evenings are light and the days are busy spent out and about, there isn't always that chill out time to get into a good book like there is on gloomy Winter days.

However I have just read two books in the space of a week. They aren't new and I am a bit behind the times on reading them but hey ho.

I really enjoyed Roald Dahl - Boy and can't believe I haven't read it before. It contains tales of his early childhood and portrays how different life was back in the mid 1920's onwards, including the dreaded cane being a regular visitor at school! It was interesting to see where the inspiration for Charlie and the Chocolate Factory came from! Now I want to read Going Solo...

My mum is an avid reader and her bookcase is always choccablock! One day, we reorganised all the books and over half of the books she still hadn't read. She loves reading, but loves buying new books to add to her collection even more!
Anyway, one afternoon when I visited, I was having a nosey in her bookcase and noticed The Secret Diary of Adrian Mole by Sue Townsend. Yes I know I am so behind the times with this one but I wanted to see what all the fuss was about as the reviews on it are raving. Written with daily diary entries I initially thought I would find it hard to read however it so easy to read because the content is hilarious. Although you do feel for poor Adrian Mole, he just makes me laugh without realising it! It's one of those books where when you finish it, you are sad when you remember the character isn't actually real.
I was saddened to hear Sue Townsend has recently passed away and I think it is such a shame as she was an extremely talented writer.

They were both relatively short books and so easy to read. Perfect for summer reading!

Linds x

The day before pay day

Today is Thursday. Tomorrow is Friday. And Friday = Pay Day!

We have had a really lovely and productive Thursday spent at home and we didn't spend a penny. Mainly because we had none left and not a drop of petrol either but also because we have a busy few weeks coming up so me and Benjamin decided to have a stay at home day. Usually, I dread having nothing planned but we really enjoyed it and I welcomed it immensely after a busy few days.

Sometimes it is easy to forget little jobs around the house that need sorting when you are out every day. I also have my burst of energy in the mornings but I flag a little in the afternoon so have to plan activities/jobs accordingly.

We actually spent all day in our pyjamas and I can't remember the last time that happened! It was great not worrying about hair or make-up. One of life's mini luxuries I'd say. Anyway, thankfully Mr Sunshine came to play so I set up the garden with paddling pool and pirate tent (which by the way, was a huge bargain from Co-Op last month - £12 for that tent! And it's FAB!) I shoved loads of his toys and teddies in there and he happily popped in and out of it all day.
There was a nice breeze today which made being outside a little more bearable and my washing dried practically straight away!

In between being outside Ben helped me hoover and polish. I tackled the biggest pile of ironing that I had put off for so long. Put two lots of washing on and out.

And then my sweet tooth kicked in to the sad realisation that we have NOTHING in because I don't go shopping until tomorrow morning. So I just made some basic biscuits with ingredients I already had in and Ben helped me ice them.

These really hit the spot. And after having left over spag bol for tea it was nice to have a treat for afterwards.

Before bed, me and Benjamin went through the pile of books he rented from the library and he loves them! He even cried when we had to leave the library last week. His favourite at the moment is Gruffalo's Child. (And so is mine!)

I love simple, free, happy days.

Craft No. 1 Farmyard Bunting and mini Tutorial

1) Choose front fabric and backing fabric and cut out triangle template. There are many templates online or in the backs of craft books which you can rent from the library. I chose a size and drew it on the back of a cereal box and cut it out. Remember when you cut any fabric with a pattern that the pattern faces the same way. I always cut 7 triangles so you will need seven front and seven back triangles.

2) Pin a front and backing triangle together wrong sides together and stitch in chosen thread down the edge of the triangle. I use the edge of the footer as my guide. Repeat for all seven triangles.

3) Once they are stitched together use some pinking shears to cut down each edge. This is my favourite effect for bunting.

4) Repeat for all 7 triangles.

5) Press each triangle and press over chosen bias binding. Some people prefer to use bunting tape but I just prefer bunting. Use whichever. Slip each triangle in between the binding and pin in place. Remember here to leave some extra bias at the first and last triangle so you can use this to tie up somewhere.

6) Repeat so all triangles are pinned in place.

7) I didn't take a picture of the next step but basically go back to your sewing machine and stitch along the bias, removing a pin at a time so all triangles are sewn in place.

Easy peasy!!

Linds x

It's a...

*drum roll* BOY! Another boy! I am definitely going to have my hands full but Luke is pleased his football team is on the way to being complete. Everything was healthy and looked as it should so we are both really chuffed. I personally think it makes it more real when you find out what you're having and you can plan and imagine the future.

I've been desperately waiting to find out what I'm having as it means I can begin crafting again! Yes, I know I could have started before but I really wanted to start once I found out the gender.

So today when Benjamin and I popped to the library, I happened to spot this book.

Although this book is great, the majority of the crafts are aimed at little girls rather than little boys and I think that's a shame. I'm trying to think of ways to adapt the crafts to suit boys too.

I'm aiming to use fabrics I already have plus old shirts my dad was throwing out, fabric from charity shops and cut offs from eBay. People who like to craft often sell FQ's and other odd sizes for next to nothing on eBay. For example, I have just won a large piece (50cm x 75cm) of the most adorable dinosaur fabric which I know will be perfect for a cushion front. I won it today so I couldn't take a picture but as soon as I get it I will.

I'm hoping to not buy hardly anything new but just use my imagination. I was sorting out Ben's old baby blankets yesterday and he has quite a few random, plain white cotton blankets. I'm thinking of doing some applique to freshen these up and make them unique.

I'd like to make some simple bibs or dribble bibs. In the free bounty pack all pregnant women get, I received a white Persil baby towel, which I plan to cut up and use for the backing. And I have some leftover farm yard fabric to use for the front. Effectively this will be a free craft.

I will need some new bunting and I might personalise it with babies name on as Ben has his own personalised bunting. Bunting never gets old either. It's such a quick, effective craft that can spruce up any room.

Other items I've thought of are more cushions, door stop and simple toys e.g. soft building blocks.

As I go along I intend to document what I make and share with you, however as of next Monday, Ben finishes Playgroup for 6 weeks which means I will have NO spare time apart from the evenings and that is usually when I flop.

Glad to be feeling inspired again.

Linds x

Mum of the Year

This was a competition entry to nominate your mum for Mum of the Year so I decided to do a poem of course!

Mum of the Year? I hear you ask
They're all the same you see
The exception is that with my mum
She had to put up with me!

From raging hormones to teenage angst
Mum refereed a sibling brawl
and even through my gothic stage
She said she didn't mind at all!

Mum has been so supportive
especially when times have been tough
She couldn't believe it when I at 20
Said surprise I'm up the duff!

A grandson was born and in true style,
his liveliness made her get fitter
And when I needed a night away
Mum was my chief babysitter.

You'll usually find her on the Kindle
Or cooking up a tasty treat
She loves painting oil pictures
But hates keeping the house neat.

She's creative and witty
and one-of-a-kind
She's positive and generous
The best role model you'll find.

I worry I won't be as good a mum
This is one thing I fear
In my eyes she's just too good to be true
So let her win Mum of the Year!

An Honest Answer

We are currently renting our home, after unexpectedly falling pregnant at 20, we didn't have the funding behind us to put a secure deposit down on a first home. With not much time to think we ended up renting a small two up two down terrace.

As a would be first time buyer, stepping onto the property ladder is an intimidating prospect. There is so much involved with moving house and with the property market prices soaring even higher it makes it even more difficult.

When Knight Frank got in contact with me to review their short debate films on everything you need to know about moving house with an honest answer, I was intrigued. It was quite refreshing to be able to hear the truth about estate agents these days from varying valuation prices to which investment mortgage to choose. So I agreed.

Moving house is such a precious event in the current financial state of the nation and estate agents are at the brunt of a lot of criticism. I have only just been made aware of online estate agents by a friend who is moving house, which to me seems daft and takes away the personal touch of the trade. And if you've ever wondered why estate agents fees differ between different companies it is all explained in the videos.  

My favourite debate was about investment mortgages and whether to choose fixed or variable interest rates as this is something I would not know where to start as it seems almost a gamble.

 



Simon Gammon, Marketing Partner of Knight Frank Finance explains jargon-free his personal opinion on the best current option. For people taking on their first mortgage and deciding between fixed and variable mortgages, beware that interest rates are set to rise next year and so fixing your mortgage is a safer option.

 

I learnt it is important to check the year ahead and see if there will be any change in the interest rates as this is an important factor and could potentially save the hassle of extortionate payments.

 

I urge you to have a look at the other 5 video debates which can be watched here as I learnt a lot.

 

Thank you for asking me to watch your videos. Here is my honest answer in relation to them.

 

Linds xx

Cricket Widow

A poem I have wrote which I would like to share.

Every weekend he always asks me,
'come down and watch me play!
come rain or shine,
it doesn't matter,
it only lasts all day'

'Why not plan and prepare
a spectacular cricket tea?
To ensure our opposition
are green with jealousy'

He explains all the different shots,
which leaves me rather stumped.
Cut, drive and square,
I hardly care,
whilst I consider if he should be dumped.

'We need a new box of vanish' he says,
'There's stains on my knees and my bum.
If you can't get them gleaning white again
I'll take them home to my mum!'

I think his position is batsman
but it could also be bowler too.
He moans and says 'I'm better than that!
I'm an allrounder thank you!'

He calls me after his match
and begins to squeal and shout.
The baffles me when he reveals
He got 85 NOT OUT.

I love my boy dearly,
except for Saturday you see.
For that's when my boys heart
Is lost to Kegworth Town CC.

Strawberry Fever

Winding through the tiny village, with chocolate box houses and pastel painted village shops, the 'Scaddow Farm - Pick Your Own' sign glittered in the sunlight to my eyes like a lighthouse to a boat.

We had finally arrived! Strawberry picking season is so exciting to me. It is something so simple but it offers so much pleasure. At the farm we went to, they allow you to pick your own strawberries, gooseberries, black currants, red currants, blackberries and raspberries but for today I fancied nothing more than a punnet of strawberries.

My aim was to start to give Benjamin a little insight into where his food comes from. However, after gobbling a few strawberries he was more interesting in galloping between the rows of lush strawberry plants than help us pluck some strawberries.

I, on the other hand was in my element. Rustic nature in it's purest form. Pulling back the green leaves to discover ruby jewels. It can only be compared to digging for gold I'm sure!

Unfortunately, I am not making jam. We don't really eat it anyway and I know I could give little jars away as gifts but I just don't fancy it this year. I want to enjoy the strawberry in all it's strawberry delight and try to eat it in a few different ways for pudding each night.

Tonight was cocoa dusted meringue nests, whipped double cream and strawberries. What more shouts 'summer'?

I think I will be going to sleep very happy tonight. (Yes, I am easily pleased!)

Linds xx

Budget Busting Summer Holidays

I'm sure you all know I'm on a budget. Massively. Money is so tight for us and we have been bad at saving in the past but recently we have been able to clear our credit card, which has been a huge weight lifted from us.
Even though I tell you this on my blog, day to day, I like to make the best of what I have and have a good time with what little money we do have.

Benjamin has been attending playgroup for almost 8 months now which offers him entertainment and time with friends which he really needs. He get's bored very quickly and so needs this form of stimulation. The only downside with playgroup is that every time there is a half term it means he is off too so already at 2 and a half years old I am having to plan things for the holidays. The next big one is the 6 weeks holidays starting the 23rd July.

So what do I plan to do?

My first step was by using an old jam jar I decided to put any spare pound coins/50p's that were left floating in my purse were put in the jam jar even if it was one or two a week. If you start early enough in the year you can have a good amount stashed up. This means rather than getting to August and having to put £50 worth of activities in your monthly budget, it saves you the grief and you feel you can treat yourself and your kids.

It's always best to plan ahead and write a list of activities you know will be happening locally. For example, living in Derby we have an online website which tells you all the local events going on. You can see what takes your fancy, pop it in your diary and then you have something to look forward to. That's the thing with me, I like to have things to look forward to and I dread a week where I don't have much going on.
You'll also find during the summer holidays, local places will put on events and special days to attract the youngsters.

Remember the best memories to create don't have to cost the earth. Cast your mind back to when you were a child. What do you remember more? The family picnics, the water fights? Exactly - that's where the memories will be born. One of my fondest memories was one day a week out of the holidays I spent it with my nana and she used to take me on the double decker bus to town. Naturally, we sat on the top deck right at the front and looked down the view hole to the driver - it was the best part! Then we used to wander round town whilst she did her jobs and she would always buy me a Birds Iced Bun. Then we would walk along the river gardens, feed the ducks and return back to the bus station. So simple but always stuck in my mind with fondness.

If you are on a budget you tend to think more creatively and I can honestly say it is more fun. Rather than podding out for an afternoon at the cinema, which by the way I just refuse to go lately with how expensive it is, there are so many other things to do too.
Oh and I'm not saying cut out all treats like the cinema but I think it's about balance. So here I am discussing the budget balanced bit.

I have all sorts of things planned.

• Picnics at local parks - we have a park about a 5 minute walk from our house so if we pack a few sandwiches, cakes and drinks we can go and laze about for half a day for FREE. I say free because the food is budgeted into my weekly shop so I'm not buying anything extra. Even if it rains you can eat your picnic indoors.
• Local Farmer's Market - Our local Farmer's Market is every third Thursday so I am planning to take Benjamin on the bus (he is fascinated whenever he see's one and I haven't actually taken him on one yet!) get a few bits of local food and get him a cake or some strawberries. The food I buy will be incorporated into my weekly food budget so all I would be paying for extra is the return bus fair.
• Library - Not only will we be going regularly to get our supply of books (FREE) we will also be attending the Rhyming Sessions they offer. For half an hour every Thursday afternoon, our local library puts on a session where we read books and sing songs. It's really lovely and also FREE.
• Derby QUAD - We have an arts centre in Derby called the Quad and they are always offering free activities for every age group. I had a look online and every Saturday they are holding FREE lego play sessions for children. Basically Benjamin's heaven.
• Whitepost Farm Centre - In Nottingham there is a lovely petting farm called Whitepost Farm and it is fantastic. You can feed and stroke the animals, play on the huge play area, run around, eat picnics and ice cream, see lots of mini beast and play on old tractors. This is an expensive day out however my mum has been doing the 'couple of pound a week in a pot' so that she could take us for a day trip out in the summer and this is where we have chosen. So I understand it isn't technically free however technically I'm not paying for it - hoorah!
• Bluebells Farm - literally about a 5 minute drive away from us (no we can't walk as it is down a treacherous road) there is a farm called Bluebells, who are famous for their amazing ice cream which is distributed throughout Derbyshire. Free parking, very little petrol. You can pay £1 for a bag of food to feed the animals; ducks, pigs, goats, rabbits etc. and then they have a lovely play area and huge sand pit. As a treat we will both be having some ice cream. Real daredevils, us!
• For rainy days we have painting/craft mornings, indoor dens, megablock tower building, book corner, smoothie making, cake making.  
• Luke has a week off in August so we plan to spend our most of our days locally but we've said as we're not going on a holiday this year we must go to the beach for the day! This excites me!

Dotted throughout the holidays we have a few of Benjamin's friends birthday parties, days at grandma's etc so all in all I believe if you use a little imagination there is so much you can do!
Oh and my last tip is use PINTEREST. There is a fountain of inspiration on there especially if you are having a day when you aren't sure what to do and your toddler is looking at you with hopeful eyes.

Linds xx

My 10 favourite little things about Summer

I just LOVE the little things in summer. There is so much to appreciate and so much to take in. Smells, sights, tastes. Everything is better and everyone is happier when the sun is shining.

1. Hanging washing out to dry on the line so that it when you take it off it smells so fresh you could wrap it round you and flop.
2. Being able to eat every meal outside. There is something that reminds me of being on holiday when I do this.
3. Strawberry picking. Fresh strawberries are so juicy and our local strawberry picking farm will be hit for sure when we take Benjamin this year. Can't wait to eat my weight in strawberries.
4. Letting Benjamin run around without his nappy on and paddling in the pool. Not a care in the world.
5. Turning the telly OFF. Let's face it, there's nothing good on anyway and what could be better than sitting outside listening to all the sounds...cars in the background, families in their gardens, birds singing, people walking their dogs, children playing on the field...
6. I actually want to eat healthier! I fancy eating salads and making smoothies and creating fruit salads with whatever is in season. Lightly dusted seabass with lemon and dill for supper. Kiwi and strawberry for desert. It all tastes better.
7. The light mornings motivate me to get up and start my day. The light evenings make me feel like the day will never end.
8. Days off spent outside at parks, picnics in the field, playing in the paddling pool in the garden. It's all free and everyone is happy. We get our intake of vitamin D and we get a good dose of fresh air. Lovely.
9. Lying at night with the windows open. I love the slight muffle of life somewhere far in the distance whilst I am comfy in bed.
10. Everything is more relaxed and comfortable. Flip flops, recliner chairs outside, cool showers, lazy Saturday brunches outside. All we need now are siestas during work!

Linds x

A Herby Treat

It was my birthday a couple of weeks ago and I felt rather depressed as everything I wanted to do, e.g. drink cocktails and go to Alton Towers, I couldn't.
But it ended up being a nice day spent with family and friends. My mum and dad popped round in the morning and made a full cooked breakfast which was delicious and my sister made me a fantastic trifle instead of a birthday cake. Usually, I hate trifle and I'm always the one to make the Christmas buffet trifle but can never face eating it myself. And now that I'm pregnant its been something I'm reeeeally fancying...strange!
My dad also said to me he wanted to get me something nice for my birthday and asked if I would like some maternity clothes or something for the baby. 'NO!' I retorted but as a joke said I'd much prefer a Michael Kors purse knowing it was a bit pricey. And look what he pretended he'd left in the car...

Anyway, what I am getting round to is that I got given a bit of cash for my birthday and naturally spent most of it as soon as possible. But with my last £10 I found the most adorable thing that I just had to buy.

Wandering around Homebase for Fathers Day Ideas, I ended up spotting something for myself (which is sort of always what happens when you know you shouldn't be looking for yourself)
I grow herbs in my windowsill but put them on random plates which end up looking dirty and they tend to get overgrown quickly. But this herb tray containing 'bronze fennel', 'mint', 'parsley' and 'rosemary' was a bargain at £10!! It stays in the garden in this cute wooden box and I can nip out all year round to snip off whatever I need.
Originally I thought the 'bronze fennel' was dill as I had never heard of fennel as a herb. And since looking online I have discovered it is edible but a lot of people don't like the taste so I might dig that one up and replace with coriander or basil.

I know it might sound like a boring present but to me I love presents I can use. My purse I use every single day and organise it into compartments, e.g. coupons, important reward cards, postage stamps and loyalty cards (yes I am a bit OCD with my purse) and my herbs I use almost every day in my cooking.
Money well spent I say!

Linds x