The Best Version of Me

On my new journey of self discovery, it became clear that one of the reasons people decide to change their lifestyle is in order to enlighten the best possible versions of themselves.

Not only am I interested in the food side of things, I am increasingly becoming enticed into the idea of nourishing the soul by meditation/yoga.

I often hear (not always but often) the secret to reaching a ripe old age and still being active and well is to partake in regular low impact exercises such as walking/swimming, eat sensibly and having a positive outlook on life. I know it is easier said than done but these are really simple, easy steps to take in order to be a better you.



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I have been reading (again!) Sarah Wilson - I Quit Sugar and I really like her theory. I quote:

'Exercise less - It's a controversial idea, but hear me out. Humans didn't evolve to blitz and pump and boot camp themselves silly in a gym and there's no evolutionary purpose to running marathons. Outrunning a sabre-toothed tiger for 2-3 hours was never going to be an accomplishable feat, we evolved to feed our energy to our brains so we could outsmart said tiger.'

I really like this motto, or as Sarah calls it part of her wellness code, not because I am lazy but because it totally makes sense. I mean, what do marathons and Ironman's prove really? That you can push your body to its absolute limit until it can take no more?

Anyway, I am an absolute beginner of meditation (and probably not even doing it right!) but I take 5 minutes (that's what I'm starting with) every morning between Luke leaving for work and Ben waking up and lie in bed. I start from my head and try to relax each muscle working my way down my body until I feel my body loosen up. I then imagine a space, a piece of heaven in my mind such as walking on a warm beach and try to experience all the sensations. I try to feel the warm sand beneath my toes and the sun beating down. And then I imagine floating in the warm sea and drifting my hands through the water.
Just 5 minutes of this before coming back to reality can make you feel so much better starting off your day.

You don't have to do this in the morning, you can do it whenever you feel is best for you. I read that some people take 5-10 minutes in their lunch break or prefer doing it in the evening. Whichever you choose, it is best to repeat at the same time every day. Also you can choose to lie down (I am because I am 37 weeks pregnant currently and feel more comfortable doing so) or you can sit in the lotus position (legs crossed) or kneel. This is really all I know so far but it shows that anyone can do this.

You probably want more reasons as to why you would take this into your daily routine so here are a few:

• Stress reduction - not only does meditation give you some down time for however long you decide, it also has a direct effect on reducing cortisol, the body's stress related hormone. By meditating in the morning, you can decide what you want from your day before it has fully began.
• Happiness - Meditation can increase serotonin levels (mood enhancing hormone) and allows you to have a happier outlook on life.
• Improved sleep - One of the best natural remedies for insomnia, meditation can clear the busy mind that keeps you awake at night allowing you to get that full nights sleep.
• Boost Energy - Because meditation gives you time away from all the stimulation in your day it allows you to have more control, feel less rushed and reenergised.
• Increase immunity - if you feel a cold coming on or everyone at work has a bug going round, by taking time out of your day to build up your defence and research shows it boosts antibodies to fight off nasty viruses and bacteria.

This is what I have learnt so far and I think there are numerous other benefits from meditation but I haven't been doing this long at all. Just think, something so simple is so effective. Why are we not all doing this?!



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I personally don't have a specific reason to meditate but the overall idea is I want to boost the best version of me so why not give it a go for yourself?

Linds xx

'Dum Dum de Dum...All Dressed in White...'

Arghh! Look who got engaged!

On Sunday 5th October, Luke said we needed to pop and see his granddad (who happens to live just around the corner from the church where we first met at my friends wedding - however this did not register to me at all). Instead of continuing on to his granddads house, he turned into the long driveway of the church and I did my usual, nagging him as to why he had gone off track, until he pulled over. He told me to get out (I still had no clue as to what was happening) and when I turned round he was down on one knee! I couldn't believe it!

Only that week had I jokingly warned him that if he proposed I might not cry as everyone calls me the ice dragon, but there I was sobbing my heart out. Of course I said yes amidst blubbering and he bought out a bottle of champagne.

What I loved about how he did it was that it was so understated and yet so meaningful (once I worked out that's where we first met...) There was no-one around, there was no fancy restaurant, no over the top arrangement in place and most importantly I had NO idea it was coming. I have a sneaky way of discovering hidden plans/surprises so the boy did good.

We have already booked the wedding already for next year, August 30th and I can't flippin' wait! Just need to get this baby out (3 weeks to go) and lose some weight ready to try on some dresses!

Anyway, think I'll float off in my romantic dreaming bubble now...

Linds xx

New Blog Direction

I have never really known my forte in life but what has always been apparent is my love for food and cooking. I wake up and I am so excited for breakfast, I plan lunches and dinners well in advance throughout the day as I like to look forward to what we will be eating and flicking through a cookery book with a cuppa is my idea of a little piece of heaven.

I had booked myself onto a professional course at Ashburton Cookery School in Devon but had to drop out as I found out I was pregnant with Benjamin. Although I was delighted to be pregnant, a little piece of me was disappointed that I couldn't continue with the course however many times people told me 'you will be able to do it again one day'. One day meaning years.

Although I do love wholesome, hearty dinners and tasty home made treats, for the past year or so I have developed a passion for holistic nutrition and well being and I really feel that this is the direction I am heading in lifestyle/career wise. My Instagram feed consists of Dale Pinnock, Deliciously Ella, Madeleine Shaw, Mind Body Bowl, Green Kitchen Stories and more. I am becoming one of those annoying people that only post pictures of my latest soup or breakfast bowl and I am teaching myself that the right food can heal you from the inside. I am making a conscious effort to shop locally, to try new, in season delights and to generally feed my body and soul with goodness.

Porridge made with almond milk, blueberries and cinnamon.

Local Farmers Market goodies.

Deliciously Ella's Lentil and Turmeric Soup.

Been desperate to get my hands on this stuff!

Tomatoes ready to be roasted for a soup.

Excuse the low quality pictures - need to invest in a proper camera!

I'm hoping to take this blog on a new journey, where I still document my lifestyle and musings however focus more on my new total well being. I hope you will enjoy.

Linds xx

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Contemplating

Recently, I've been asked a few times what I think I'll do jobwise once my children go to school. It's been a bit of a shock because I've been putting those thoughts to the back of my mind for so long as the thought scares me.

Not because I don't want to go back to work but because I have no idea what I'll be doing. And it is the realisation that I'll unlikely be important in a job again, which if I want to commit to my children and family is true.

I'm going to have to think about something that will fit round my lifestyle but will that fulfil my dreams and ambitions? I have a constant conflict in my mind. What are us mums supposed to do?

My mum was a stay at home mum ever since my sister was born when I was 7. Luke asked me what I remember most about her being at home. I answered that I loved whenever I was poorly she could pick me up from school immediately, take me home and care for me. I loved how a home cooked meal was always ready whenever I got in or that the house was always clean and tidy and my clothes were always ready when I needed them. These were little things that I know my best friend who had a single working mum never had.

I had always panicked that Ben would grow up to think I never did anything if I were to stay at home or work part time but Luke reassured me that this wouldn't be the case.

I know some women have no choice to go back to work and I know that we could have had more money if I worked full time instead of part time. I just feel that its been our choice to have children (maybe not choice the first time!!!) but it happened and I want to do everything possible to ensure Ben and bump have a secure, loving upbringing even if it means sacrificing extra money.

I still believe traditional ways are the best but unfortunately the government doesn't think so as they make it virtually impossible for mums to stay at home with their children.

We'll just have to see where we are at the time the decision needs to be made. In a few years we might be more financially stable, cars paid off and savings built up. Who knows where the future will take us.

Linds x

Happy Anniversary

Yes, that is his real hair.

Happy 4 Year Anniversary to my one and only.
4 years together, 3 years living together and almost 2 children! 
You just know when they're the one.

Linds x

30 Weeks

I do like a good pair of baps!

The above picture was taken of me last week at work whilst I put the bread delivery out. Then it occurred to me that this week see's me entering the 30 week mark of pregnancy and that I only have 4 weeks left of work. Not that I am unhappy about finishing work but it's the realisation that very soon there is going to be another baby here (exciting). And that means I will have been through labour one more time and I can't bear to think about it! (scary)

I didn't have a great first labour. It was very long, very painful and my memory of it is a total blur. I seem to be the only one out of my 'mum' friends that had a difficult time, everyone else seems to ask what I was moaning about. And that makes me feel like I either have a low pain threshold or was just being a huge wimp!

But anyway, I'll go into it again with an open mind. I definitely won't be writing a birth plan and I didn't with the first. Nothing goes to plan so to speak. I'll have any pain relief except pethidine (which doesn't sound open minded I know but I've heard nothing but bad experiences of it) and I'm going to try and remain a bit calmer this time rather than screaming and shouting at the top of my lungs with each contraction. Easier said than done, right?!

I know most people finish work at 36 weeks but with my job, even though I'm only part time, I'm constantly on my feet running around like a blue arsed fly and each shift just about finishes me off. It'll also give me a precious few weeks to spend with Benjamin before the new arrival .

Is anyone else expecting their second? How do you feel about it all?

Linds x